When you are in a relationship, you should be honest to your partner so that you can establish trust and loyalty. Moreover, open communication lets your lover know that you are serious about the relationship.
Still, there are probably some things that you stay quiet about for different reasons. Here are 13 things you probably do not reveal to your girlfriend.
1. The secrets of other people.
This can be a good thing. Even if you truly love your girlfriend, you should still respect the fact that other people trust you enough to keep their secrets.
2. Confidential, sexual issues with your ex-girlfriend.
You might have had sexual and private issues that you only share with your ex-lover. You see, even if your relationship has ended, it does not mean that you can share each and every story with her to your current lover.
3. Comparing her with other women.
Sometimes you look obvious when you check out other women. But you also probably secretly think about them after they have left.
4. That your family doesn’t like her.
Yes, you love your girlfriend. But it is better if you do not tell her what your family thinks about her. Build a positive relationship, slowly but surely.
5. How you spend time with your best buds.
Just like how girls can go crazy, you and your pals can also be downright weird whenever you guys go out.
6. How you ruined your past relationships.
If you were a scumbag with your ex-girlfriend, you probably should not tell this to your current partner. Leave the past behind because it is time for you to be a better man.
7. You like your girlfriend’s enemies.
Your girlfriend treats you as someone she can rely on. Even if you actually like your girlfriend’s enemies, stay quiet.
8. You had a pay increase.
This is more humorous than serious, okay? If you were suddenly promoted, think about the consequences if you let her know how much you can spend.
9. You think she is on her period.
It is considered rude just to say that your girlfriend is on her period when she acts strangely. Let her acknowledge it, but do not be the first if you do not want to accidentally offend her.
10. Her friends are annoying.
You may truly love your girlfriend, but her friends can be totally annoying.
11. You don’t like her makeup or clothes.
Of course, you believe that she is beautiful. But sometimes, you just do not like some of her makeup and the clothes that she puts on. Still, do not say this. A woman has the right to wear and do what she wants.
12. You like viewing pornography and you are paying for it.
Not only are you viewing pornography lately, but you might also be subscribed to it. Your girlfriend might understand, but you should probably not tell your digital sexual adventures every night.
13. You actually saw her text/call.
Admit it. Sometimes you are playing a game or you are out with your buddies. While you actually intend to reply to your girlfriend, you somehow just ignore it and make an excuse later.
